5 ways to add meaning to your life

Quite often in coaching sessions, the topic of โ€˜Meaningโ€™ comes up. Sometimes itโ€™s eluded to, other times itโ€™s spoken about directly. It might be a question: What is it, exactly? A want โ€“ for more meaningful work or relationships. Or it might become a discussion about whatโ€™s meaningful in a clientโ€™s life right now.

If meaning is on your mind, have a look at these five areas to inspire more meaning in your days.

  1. People. Your family, your friends, your communities. Close relationships are the greatest source of life meaning for most people. Prioritise time for your relationships and focus on really being present when youโ€™re together. Nurture those relationships where you feel truly seen and heard and where you do this for others. Support family and friends in need and seek their support when youโ€™re in need. This cycle of care and reciprocation is a lovely way to enhance your connection and manage lifeโ€™s challenges.
  2. Interests. Thereโ€™s a chance your outside-of-work interests are creative. Perhaps you like to write, paint, sew or build. As well as making time and space for your creativity, you might like to share your efforts and expression. Whether itโ€™s publishing a poem on Instagram, gifting a dress you made, or showing a painting to a workmate. Sharing your creation will enhance your connection to the person youโ€™re sharing it with; as well as deepen the connection to your own creative spirit andย  identity.
  3. Nature. Experiencing nature in some way each day is so nourishing โ€“ a chance to refresh your body and thoughts. The awe and wonder of nature can help boost your joy, diminish small worries, and create perspective and gratitude. You could take a mindful walk and savour the birdsong, scents, air and sky. Witness the cycle of the day by watching the sun rise or set or gaze at the moon and stars.
  4. Contribution. Though easy to forget, you achieve lots of things each and every day. Whether itโ€™s helping your child learn something new, cooking a nutritious meal for your partner or giving a friend some advice. Take a moment today to acknowledge your capacities, commitment and service. With work, if it isnโ€™t as meaningful as youโ€™d like, you could try a few things to create more meaning: 1. Take on projects or tasks that match your skills and interests. 2. Build helpful and joyful relationships with colleagues. 3. Think about how the service or product you work on helps improve peopleโ€™s lives. If youโ€™d like to give back in another way, you could volunteer for a cause or organisation thatโ€™s meaningful to you.
  5. Journey. Whether youโ€™re recovering from a setback, developing your personal or professional capacities, or applying your curiosity to whatever it is that excites you… Your personal growth journey is unique and precious. Donโ€™t diminish it. Continue to encourage yourself by looking at how far youโ€™ve come โ€“ in a role, a relationship, with your mindset. If thereโ€™s something youโ€™ve always wanted to do to expand your sense of self, take a small step towards it this week.ย ย ย ย 

This article was originally published on emmadelahey.com