Every day I use a website called HabitRPG (the RPG stand for role-playing games.) HabitRPG (as its name suggests) tracks your habits in a gaming type environment, giving you small rewards for doing the โrightโ thing.
If you do the wrong thing (for example failing to log in and tick off your habits/to-dos after a while), your little character can die.
Are you โthat little guyโ?
The reason programs like HabitRPG are so addictive is because they mirror (and play on) how we operate in the real world.
Which means we all have a little HabitRPG program built into our brains and itโs telling us if we arenโt ticking all the boxes every day, weโre failures. It tells us our business will die an unseemly death if we donโt:
- deliver the best customer service we can,
- get a specific number of tasks completed,
- bring a certain amount of new clients on board, and,
- in general, hit all our targets.
Every day.
So when are we allowed to give ourselves down time?
I donโt know about you but I travel in cycles. Some months of the year I burn intensely bright, and push, push, push, reading business books, learning new things and actively building my business.
Other months of the year (because I suffer from anxiety), I just get by. I do the bare minimum because itโs all I can cope with. This cycle normally goes around every three months: at the start I burn, at the end I rest, and then I go again.
A lot of people who would consider this failure. They would think โIโm not doing this โrunning a business thingโ right if I donโt checkย in every day, tick off every box and achieve every goal.โ
Ultimately however, we all have to do what works for us.
My way allows meย to run my business in a successful way. I donโt push myself to be more when I canโt. Iโve learned what my boundaries are and how to work within them. If I didnโt allow my down times to happen, burnout would occur in a very short space of time and bam, my business would flat-line. Not a single heartbeat left.
What works for you might be to go hard during the week but totally shut down on weekends.
Or it might be to simply take a day off at whatever point you find yourself on the brink.
The important thing here is to recognise is that down time is not weakness, itโs a strength.
Today I learned I can put my HabitRPG character in the โlocal innโ to rest. So when Iโm sick, my character goes to the inn and sleeps, and THEY DONโT DIE.
Given HabitRPG mirrors the real world, thereโs a clear message there I think: donโt be afraid to check yourself into the inn for a rest!
Do you find it hard to have down time for your business? Do you tend to wait til youโre completely burnt out to do so?
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