Starting your own business: Jumped or pushed?

Starting your own business doesnโ€™t always begin with a well planned jump. Mine began with a firm push, courtesy of my last boss, who was in fact the last boss I had, or will ever have with any luck.

It was 1999, I was 25 and bullet proof, fresh off the boat from the UK and ready to get stuck into Sydney life. I temped for a while at Tourism New South Wales, where I made a few pals and got to explore the state. A pretty cruisy gig, really, so when a full time role came up, I went for it.

I landed the job – secretary to the sales director. A breeze for me, I mean I had a degree from one of Englandโ€™s top universities, so how hard can typing and answering phones be?

Imagine my surprise when come appraisal time, my boss labelled my performance โ€˜averageโ€™. Average! Me! The straight โ€˜Aโ€™ student! At typing! Oh, the humiliation.

There I was, coasting along and thinking I was nailing it, when I was actually stuffing it up in my own passive aggressive way.

As I blubbed my way through the appraisal meeting, an excruciating experience for all involved, I can assure you, my boss was kind enough to explain his rationale:

โ€œItโ€™s not that youโ€™re unable to do this job, Sam, but itโ€™s obvious you donโ€™t want to. So you shouldnโ€™t do it. Youโ€™re just not cut out for it. I need more engagement, more commitment from my secretary.โ€

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We both knew that these qualities werenโ€™t going to manifest in me. I resigned quick smart.

In many ways, my journey intoย starting my own businessย began with that boot up the backside and Iโ€™m forever grateful for it. If Iโ€™d have had a less bold boss, I might still be plotting โ€˜betterโ€™ things, but failing to strike out.

It was a tough lesson, and I can assure you the stem from this freshly cut tall poppy wept for a while. But it was a critical catalyst for me, in that it got me thinking what I really wanted to do – go it alone as a copywriter.

And who was one of my first copywriting clients? You guessed it.

Winston Churchill said โ€œI am always willing to learn. However I do not always like being taught.โ€

What hard lessons have helped you along? Did your journey into starting our own businessย begin with a push rather than a jump?