Pulverise procrastination with these 4 simple words
We all procrastinate for different reasons. For me, itโs usually the pointless pursuit of perfectionism. When Iโm in a procrastination slump I only want to start a task when Iโm able to produce a near-perfect result. My self-talk is usually, โIโll start when I have more time,โ or โIโll begin when Iโm in the right frame of mindโ, and so on.
But in the past few weeks, every time Iโm about to procrastinate I remove any pressure by pre-empting the end result of my first attempt. I say the following four words:
โThis wonโt be pretty.โ
(Or, if Iโm feeling particularly wild and rebellious, โThis will be crapโ.)
By acknowledging that my first attempt may be substandard, I remove my perfection pants and just get started. Without the inner pressure, the end result is always quite reasonable and sometimes pretty good! No matter what standard it is, I can easily mould it toward near-perfection over time because I have something to improve on. As they say, you canโt edit something that hasnโt been written.
Procrastination breeds procrastination. If I delay one thing, I delay another. Those four simple words help me topple over the procrastination hump, dust myself off, and plod along in a state of gentle productivity.
In just the past few days, among other things, my four words have helped me:
(Caveat: Of course, I wouldnโt say โThis wonโt be prettyโ if I was about to:
I still believe in being adequately qualified and prepared!)
On days when my mind is particularly distracted, within a few minutes or even just a few seconds of starting my task, I want to quickly check my emails or Facebook. Why? Well, based on the science of productivity, before starting a task the brain visualises the hideously hard parts, and tries to simulate real work by focusing on small, mindless tasks like checking social media.
So, while โThis wonโt be prettyโ gets me started, in order to keep going I need to fight the allure of distractions. I usually do this by imagining how Iโll feel when the task is finished as opposed to how Iโll feel if I succumb to the distractions.
Thankfully, the Zeigarnik Effect usually kicks in too. This is a construct of the mind that compels us to finish a task weโve started. If we donโt finish the task, we usually feel uncomfortable and uneasy.
So the key is to remove pressure and just get started. Perhaps you can come up with your own inspirational words to help you take action? If you do, let me know what they are in the comments section below.
How do you deal with procrastination?
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