Systems 1, Goals 0

Having previously proudly described myself as โ€˜goal-orientedโ€™ I am now convinced goals are a crock. Hereโ€™s why.

Three separate lessons on the topic of systems versus goals have come to my attention of late. How fortunate to recognise the synchronicity around article deadline time. (Writers, I know youโ€™re hearing me right now.)

Anyway the first two lessons came courtesy of this INC article on goals.

Now you and I know as sure as eggs are eggs, whenever a New Year hits, publications everywhere spew forth a slurry of advice around goals and how-most-are-broken-in-a-month and how-to-make-them-stick by breaking-them-into-chunks. But INC approached it from a different angle. Their contribution to the conversation had me nodding as if my head were on a spring.

Lesson 1: Systems trump goals

INC suggest you totally disregard goals (e.g. โ€˜get more customers, lose weightโ€™) and instead focus on systems (e.g. โ€˜make five cold calls a day, only eat whole foodsโ€™).

Around that time, I got very convincing proof of this in action.

In August last year I committed to practicing 45 minutes of yoga per day courtesy of the amazing online service Yogapad. (As it turns out, Iโ€™ve ended up doing it roughly six days a week. But the important thing is I started doing it and have kept the practise up to this day.)

In the early days I remember being awestruck by teacher Jeanetteโ€™s ability to move from plank to upfaced dog (basically a slow push up). โ€œHow does she do it?โ€ I wondered. I lacked the core strength and the upper body muscles to contemplate doing the hard version, so consistently did the easier, knees-on-ground variation offered.

Then one day, I could do it. I was elated. I hadnโ€™t once consciously said โ€œI am going to nail that poseโ€ but nail it I did, all thanks to my simple adherence to a system.

Lesson 2: No goals, no post goal-achievement letdown

Another of the INC articleโ€™s many insights was the fact that some goals are at odds with long term progress. For instance, you train each day to meet your goal of running a half marathon, but once youโ€™ve run the marathon, what then?

This is where I point you to the other โ€˜achievementsโ€™ that have come out of my regular yoga practise. At the outset I did not state โ€œI want to revert to the weight I was 20 years agoโ€ or โ€œI want to be able to fast walk the Byron Bay lighthouse track with ease.โ€ Yet I now can tick both these boxes. I suspect if Iโ€™d specifically set out to โ€˜achieveโ€™ either of these things (or the aforementioned pose), there would have been a sense of โ€œwhat now?โ€ that followed.

Instead, I find myself quite curious as to what will unfold in the coming months (but will try not ruin any surprises by speculating.)

Lesson 3: Systems help create a culture

The above two revelations brought to mind a line (credited to management guru Peter Drucker) that once heard, I could not get out of my brain. It said โ€œCulture eats strategy for breakfastโ€.

It occurred to me that you could easily replace the words โ€˜cultureโ€™ and โ€˜strategyโ€™ with โ€˜systemsโ€™ and โ€˜goalsโ€™.

My experience is that systems, when adhered to willingly, create a culture that supports the system, and a virtuous circle ensues. For instance, in the old days Iโ€™d unwind with a beer or two once the kids were in bed. Now I unwind with yoga. I used to do endless research before reaching a decision, now I will sit with it while I meditate.

I did not explicitly state โ€œI will drink less beerโ€ or โ€œI will listen to my intuitionโ€. But because both of those outcomes are supported by my yoga practice, (which is now an intrinsic part of my personal culture), theyโ€™re outcomes anyway.

Yoga has changed my life after an annus horriblis involving cancer in 2013 (which you can read more about here, I am all fine now.) I am humbler, calmer, stronger physically and slightly more dull person than I was, but Iโ€™m happy in the true sense of the word.

Systems versus goals. What do you think? Has synchronicity struck for you the week of a deadline? Share all here.