4 outdated sales styles you definitely need to kick to the curb
Nobody likes a pushy salesperson these days, according to author and business coach Milton Collins. In this extract from his book,ย Delight Disrupt Deliver, he shares the top four outdated sales styles that businesses should really avoid in the modern marketing landscape.ย
Most people squirm when they hear the word โsalesโ. They think of the hideous sleazy salespeople who try to manipulate, coerce or force people to buy. And we all know how much we detest those types!
You know the type, the one that holds you hostage and requires a direct and firm โno wayโ to get the point.
No one likes overly pushy salespeople.
Letโs take a look at four of the most common.
Order-takers just literally take orders. They take your order and then they donโt try to do anything else. They donโt ask any questions, they simply just do the very basics.
Thatโs cool, if someone wants to buy a sandwich quickly. But thereโs so much more they could be doing – introducing other items, building a good relationship so customers will return.
Order-takers just do the order. They take a sale and do the minimum paperwork. They havenโt discussed anything else or offered any other benefits. They are coasters. Just coasting along not offering anything special.
They promise the world and deliver less. That is the worst thing to do because you need to be over-delivering rather than over-selling.
The overseller often just loves making the sale as an adrenaline rush not as a genuine service. They can also be known as The-Sell-Anything-to-Anyone-at-Anytime Type.
They promise everything and often get shocked as to why people feel let down when โthey gave them such a good dealโ. They often love money and status. Sales is their passion but theyโve got to learn emotional intelligence.

Product pushers are pushy and annoying. They talk about the product and want to push it regardless of whether itโs a right fit for the customer or not.
They think in terms of short-term sales or KPIs rather than long-term customer satisfaction. Sure, they are happy to door-knock or cold call but they often fail to listen to the customer’s objections and take their โno thank youโ seriously.
Theyโll be the type that keeps calling you even if youโve said โnoโ three times to their face. They care about how many items they sell, not the people they sell to.
Then youโve got the salespeople who donโt listen to their clients because they just love hearing their own voice.
They love over-stating why you should buy from them. They love spruiking about who uses their product or service. They donโt listen to the person, they tell people about themselves. Itโs all about them, their product, how good they are, or how good their services are.
But theyโre not listening to what the client needs. They are over-stating their value and under-stating the customersโ value. They often name drop and assume youโre interested in status.
The key to successful sales is about building trust, itโs about providing solutions, itโs not about how to sell it, itโs not about the money.
If youโre proud of your product and you know itโs good, you donโt need to do a hard sell. Be proud of building relationships. If you build the relationship, theyโll come back time and again.
Thatโs how you disrupt things, too โ people come to you and then they refer their friends and associates. And that referral is far better than any sale because somebody else told them how good you are, how good your product is.
Thatโs what selling really should be. Thatโs what clever salespeople do. They donโt just flog products or push too hard. They build genuine relationships and offer solutions. They build a brand the people can trust and want to be a part of.
This post was originally published in 2023 and appeared on Kochie’s Business Builders. You can read the original here.
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