Why word of mouth advertising matters

Itโ€™s easy to think of word-of-mouth advertising as being feel-good marketing, but thanks to my contrasting experiences at two international airports, I can report that feel-bad also has its place.

Upon arrival in one airport, my travel weary family and I were greeted by surly, edgy airport staff who refused to make eye contact with any of us. At the other side of passport control, John-Paul and I (who were in separate queues) both had tales of how rudely weโ€™d been dealt with.

โ€œWhyโ€™s it (sic) got a different surname?โ€ the passport officer asked me of my darling daughter, who is but a babe in arms. โ€œHer father and I arenโ€™t married.โ€ I stumbled, feeling ashamed of the fact for the first time. Nowadays, most would agree different last names are a social norm. To the staff of this airport they are a sign that I may be a kidnapper.

Meantime in the other airport, the welcome could not have been more different. โ€œHow was your trip? Did (glance at passport) Amy get some sleep?โ€ asked the officer. At baggage control a customs official headed our way and invited us through a fast track lane โ€œYou donโ€™t want to be hanging around here any longer than necessary, do you?โ€ After thirty hours of travelling, she was spot on.

In case you hadnโ€™t guessed, the winner is Sydney.

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I worked for Tourism New South Wales prior to Sydney 2000, and know how seriously the city took its role as Olympic host. The โ€˜airport experienceโ€™ of visitors was given lots of focus and travellers today are still enjoying the benefits.

Youโ€™d think that such a brief bad encounter in London would hardly matter. But it turns out to matter a great deal. Because try as I did to brush off the unfriendly welcome, I found myself recounting the experience to friends and family as my first week unfolded.

And here I am telling another 14,000 people.

At Flying Solo we often talk about the positive benefits of word-of-mouth advertising, but we shouldnโ€™t forget that things can work the other way.

I donโ€™t think soloists need to fall over themselves to be chummy with their customers. But being even vaguely rude is a big, fat no no in my book.

What negative experiences have you come up against recently? Dish the dirt here and we can all learn from them.